How To Believe In Yourself (Everything Is Possible)

by Zara Mohammed, Lifestyle Columnist

Published in Lifestyle on 18th December, 2019

It is amazing how much we as human beings doubt ourselves, especially when you think about all of the amazing things we have achieved as the human race. Human beings are capable of so much, and that includes you.

You should never underestimate the power of self-belief. If you want something badly enough, and you believe that you are worthy of it and capable of achieving it, you will! Believe me.

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Let's explore why anything and everything is possible. Keep reading for some awesome tips on how to believe in yourself.

How And Why Is Anything Possible?

It's all about survival of the fittest. Our brains are hardwired to do everything we can in order to survive, because survival is every living being's ultimate goal.

When a mother needs to feed her baby, she finds a way, because it is her natural instinct to protect it and help it to survive, as the baby is an extension of her. When you need to pay the rent you find a way, because otherwise you are out on the street.

If you have a party to go to and you need a new dress, you find a way to get one so that you can go and enjoy yourself with your friends.

It's very simple. Anything is possible when you believe in it. The mother believes in the survival of her baby. You believe you need a roof over your head. You believe that you must attend the party in a new dress.

Some of these things may seem trivial in comparison to others, but really it is all about the same thing - a mind-set. Take a moment to think about thin different things you believe in. Do you ever challenge your own thoughts and beliefs?

Why Do We Have Difficulty Achieving What We Want?

The trouble is that our sense of survival is skewered in the modern world, and the things that we really need or want for ourselves are influenced by so many outside factors that it is easy to start doubting ourselves.

Do we really need or want something? If we don't know for sure, then how are we meant to believe in ourselves in order to achieve those things?

The first step to getting what we want and need is to know what we want and need. In order to be able to do this we need to know ourselves. Keep reading to find out how you can increase your levels of self-belief by getting to know yourself better.

Tip 1: Improve Your Self Esteem

It might seem obvious that if you want to believe in yourself in order to get everything you want, that you need to develop your confidence. The important thing is that when you work on improving your self-esteem it allows you to be more confident in knowing yourself better.

This means that you will be more capable of sifting through everything in your life to find out what it is that is stopping you from getting what you really want.

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People with low self-esteem rely too much on what other people think or say about them. So the best way to improve your self-esteem is to kick this habit. I don't mean ignore other people completely.

You should always listen to what someone has to say, because they could share useful insight. The trick is to know what to take on board, and to be able to separate it from your own thoughts, feelings and opinions.

Other people's input has value, but your own input is just as valuable, so never underestimate what you feel. And remember that if someone else's viewpoint is different to yours, you don't necessarily have to take it as a challenge or opposition. Just accept it for what it is - someone else's thoughts and experiences.

Tip 2: Dream Bigger!

Don't be afraid to have wild and wonderful dreams. The bigger your dreams and aspirations are the bigger your purpose in life will feel. Think about it, if you don't have any dreams or ambitions, what are you living for?

Whereas is you have an idea of where you'd like to go or what you'd like to have, or who you'd like to be, it gives you something to work towards. Having dreams helps you to imagine and get more out of your life.

It is only by dreaming big that we are able to think about what our lives could really look like, rather than just sitting and accepting what our current situation is.

If you are perfectly happy and comfortable in your current situation that's fine too, but you should try asking yourself whether the reason you stop yourself from dreaming too big is really because you don't believe you can achieve more for yourself.

When you dream big, you open up doors of opportunity, and by stepping through those doors you can learn so much more about what you are truly capable of.

And it will be these self-discoveries that help you to believe in yourself more and more, and keep stepping closer and closer to having everything you want for yourself.

Tip 3: Step Out Of Your Comfort Zone

We all have a comfort zone, and unfortunately we are not all challenged to step outside of it regularly. Steeping outside of your comfort zone enables you to grow. When you grow you discover more about yourself, and you learn that you are capable of achieving more than you knew.

Here are some helpful tips to help you take small steps outside of your comfort zone, so that you can enjoy the pleasure of believing in yourself more and achieving the things that you want in your life.

Wear something different. You don't have to go overboard, but take a moment to think about what you normally wear in order to express your personality, and now choose something a bit different for a change.

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You may discover a new facet of your personality that you didn't even know was there! Go for a different colour than you usually wear, or try different accessories. Wear a hat or a neck scarf. The aim is to experience something different about your self. Have fun with it!

Learn Something New. With the Internet you have no excuse to learn something new, as there is a wealth of free information out there for you to enjoy.

But if you really want to step out of your comfort zone you should take it one step further and either sign up for a course or join a local meet up group. This way not only are you learning about a new topic, but you are also meeting new people and have the opportunity to practice communicating your own thoughts and feelings about your newly discovered topic of interest.

Make A Different Choice To Your Usual Ones Each day. This might mean ordering something other than your usual coffee or having lunch somewhere new. You may decide to spend your weekend away from home. Variety is the spice of life, and the more new things you try, the more self-confidence you will achieve. As your life blossoms, so will you!

When In Doubt...

There will always be those times when your self-esteem fails you. Maybe you have a nagging negative internal monologue that you finding difficult to shift. We all have our off days, or weeks, or even months. So here is a little list of simple prompts to help you get through the rough times.

Remember that nothing is permanent. That includes whatever states of mind you mind find yourself in, or any difficult situation.

Time is a healer. Sometimes the timing may just not be right. Patience is a virtue, so don't forget to cut yourself some slack now and then, and wait for the bad days to play out.

Things are never as bad as they seem. Your world might feel like it is falling down around you, but that is just how you feel in the moment.

Try not to think you are a failure or a bad person. Let the dust settle and come back to something that isn't working later when you have a clear head and can see things for what they are, not for how you were feeling.

Don't be afraid to ask for help. Reaching out for support is a positive thing, and represents true strength. If you need to reach out for help, go for it, because it shows that you believe you deserve to be supported, which of course you do!

Try to see the good in everything. It might be difficult, and you may not want to, but there is good in everything. Once you allow yourself to see and acknowledge it, you will feel better about whatever you felt stressed about, and more capable of working through it.


Life is short, and we each only have one to make of what we will. Your life is a gift, so make sure you appreciate and make the most of it by valuing yourself more. Once you start to believe in yourself, everything will be possible.

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